I've been using a personal crystal for a while now, with great results. It's just a clear quartz that I wear around my neck everyday. But lately, I've been considering upping the ante.
For the past couple of years, I've been struggling with an anxiety disorder. It began with a couple experiences that lead me to a panic attack, and after that they just kept coming, without warning or obvious trigger. The first couple of months I was in a total free fall. I had absolutely no control over when or where the symptoms would take place. I became more like a hermit during those times because, as anyone who suffers panic attacks knows, having one in public is beyond mortifying. And as much as people say they understand, you know that they really don't unless they have them as bad as you do. Over the past year, I've learned to recognize the symptoms and more obvious triggers. I still have unexpected potential melt downs from time to time, but I've learned to center myself and breathe through it. Which is a great deal of progress from where I was a year ago.
I was looking for an extra push the in the right direction. I refuse to concede to taking medication unless I can't control it anymore. So I began doing a little research about crystals and their properties. I figured replacing my personal crystal with one that naturally promotes calm and relaxation, while also grounding me, might be a good start. After carefully leafing through the many options out there, I finally settled on the amethyst. It promotes everything I was looking for, and the bonus is that it's a pretty darn attractive stone.
So yesterday, my husband, who has always been my anchor and grounding force through all of this, took me to an amazing little pagan shop a couple towns over. As an early Yule gift, he treated me to the most gorgeous amethyst, along with a couple other stones to use in my rituals and works.I also picked up some sage for my solstice smudging and frankincense for my solstice altar (I'll be posting about this later!).
After we got home from our travels, I was in quite the hurry to cleanse my crystal so I could begin using it. As I was doing the ritual, I had forgotten that last night was the full moon before Yule! I love cleansing on a full moon, it always seems so much more powerful. And you can't argue with results. This morning when I charged my crystal with my energy and intentions, I could FEEL it reacting. It heated up slightly and pulsated in my hands. So exciting! When I put it on for the first time, the effects were immediate. I felt like I had just taken a huge sigh of relief. And I've been in possibly the best moods I've had for ages! I'm incredibly excited to see what's in store for me now with this bad boy in my arsenal.
My cleansing ritual is based off of another ritual posted on an amazing blog and I would really like to credit her, but I can't. The big bimbo inside of me went and closed down the browser without bookmarking the site first. But she really deserves the credit, because it was her post that took all of the intimidation I had been feeling during the cleansing rituals. I'm on a mission to find this blog again, and when I do, I will be posting it here, where it belongs!
Like I said above, my ritual is based off of hers, I just changed the wording to fit my own style and needs. As I say with almost everything, you must always make it your own! If you want something to work for you personally, then it needs to come from you. There are no rules, there is only you. So feel free to use my ritual as a guideline and make your ritual your own. Or, if you feel comfortable with mine, feel free to use it. Whatever feels right for you.
Let's get started, shall we?
Quick & Easy Crystal Cleansing Ritual
First, as always, you'll need to gather your supplies. The supplies you'll need are:
*a glass bowl
*a candle
*incense
*sea salt
*purified water
*your crystals
*essential oils (optional)
Once you have your supplies gathered, you'll need to set up a special space, or an altar. It's up to you what you include on your altar. Some people choose to embellish by adding things (statues, trinkets of good luck, etc.), while others choose to keep it simple. I chose the latter, especially since I was in such a hurry to get the ritual started so the crystals could have as much moonlight as possible. Another thing you'll have to consider when selecting your space is the weather. In the warmer months, I like to do the ritual outdoors, since the crystals should remain outdoors under the moon all night. Since it's pretty frigid outside here, I chose to do the ritual indoors and then move the crystals to a makeshift altar on my enclosed back porch area. Not only do the crystals get to be essentially outside, but since I was using essential oils, I wanted to keep it absolutely out of reach from the prying paws of my pets and the neighborhood society of cats.

Before we begin the ritual instructions, let me first explain how the 4 elements are represented on your altar. The salt represents earth, the candle represents fire, the incense represents air, and the water represents... well, water. You will be calling upon all of the elements to help cleanse your crystal in this ritual.
When you are ready to begin, start by grounding and centering yourself, clearing all negativity. Light the candle and incense and fill the bowl about halfway full with the purified water. Now you'll need to gather the crystals you wish to cleanse. I chose to cleanse my clear quartz, my personal amethyst, a rough amethyst, and a black tourmaline.
Gorgeous, aren't they?
Take your crystal and pass it through the fire repeatedly while saying, "Essence of fire, cleanse and clear this crystal of all negativity and make it ready for use in my spiritual work."
Pass the crystal through the smoke of the incense and repeat the incantation for the element of air.
Gently drop the crystal into the water and repeat the incantation for the element of water.
Pour just enough salt to barely cover the crystal and repeat the incantation for the element of earth. If you're cleansing more than one crystal, only add the salt once and add more if necessary once all crystals are in the bowl.
If you're using essential oils, you can add them now. Remember to only use oils that promote your purpose for the crystals. I used lavender for calming, which was my intention for my crystals.
Now the crystals can be taken outside to soak up that awesome moonlight. I took mine out to my makeshift altar, along with the candle and the incense. I like to leave them burning until the incense is spent and I snuff the candle as I'm heading to bed for the night. I cracked the back door open for ventilation as the incense burned, but was sure to lock it back up before leaving it unattended. No need for curious paws to be dipped in my crystal bath!
Leave the bowl outside overnight. Once you are fully awake in the morning, bring your bowl inside and rinse the crystals and dry them. Get ready to charge your crystals by first grounding yourself and releasing negativity.
Take the crystal and place it in your palm, covering it with your other palm. Close your eyes and begin channeling your energy and intentions into the stone. There's no wrong way to do this. Visualize images, project emotions, speak aloud, sing.. whatever moves you. You should feel your stone responding to your energy. You might feel a slight heat, a light pulsing or a tingling sensation. Don't worry! When you're finished, put the stone aside and move on to the next, if applicable. Take your time and breathe in between. While charging my personal amethyst, I found myself in a deep meditation and it took me a moment to settle back into reality. There's no need to rush at this stage.
After you've charged your stone, you're done! You can begin wearing and using your crystals. If you're storing them for the first time, do a quick web search for proper storage information. There's a wealth of information out there if you look for it.
That was easy, right?
If you're planning on trying this ritual, or have tried it, I'd love to hear from you!
And remember, I'm always here to answer any and every question to the best of my ability. Just leave me a comment and I'll be sure to respond ASAP!
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Have a blessed day!